okay so i know this thread is getting long... and i know that sometimes people just have no idea what to say... and that is okay. i mean really, that is okay.

but... uh... doesn't anybody else have this kind of issue coming up for them in therapy?

if not then that is okay. i mean different things come up for different people at different times and so on and so forth. maybe this is a hard topic too. makes people feel squeemish or something... but... uh... i'd be interested to know if anyone else can relate...