I know this topic comes up time and time again but I have read articles and talked to a doctor and still I have got know where. Im 23 and still faking but I dont think I need to anymore because Im sure my bf knows lol....help!!! I feel terrible for my bf and I feel left out so to speak. I have tried masturbation which is ok for a short while but time consuming and I lose interest, and the same goes for oral with my bf, I kinda get bored and my mind wanders. I cant help it I try so hard not to let it. I feel like I've tried everything, so if anyone has any new ideas please fill me in....