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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn
We all deserve/expect to have our needs met. Have you talked to him? Couples counseling would be helpful; if he won't go, go for yourself. You aren't doing anything wrong. Feelings aren't right or wrong, they simply are. Do you suspect there is someone else (sorry for that question), but when people change drastically, there is a reason. You are doing everything.....and he isn't...as you said, he is "selfish"---so wrong. You will begin to resent him (if you already don't)....a marriage should be about respect, love, etc.......
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I know for a fact there is no one else. He never leaves the house, unless its to go to work.
It really hasnt drastically changed or anything. He was kinda like that before we were married, but its like completely shut off for about a year and a half now.
I dont resent him at all, i just feel like im litterally(?) doing all the work....in every aspect and i dont understand.