Kori,

Maybe your therapist is good; even superb, but it sounds like you need someone(psychiatrist or clinical psychologist)who specializes in working with people who have experienced emotional/physical trauma. Check with Wayne State University Medical School or search online. Your therapist isn't helping you if she's saying you can be with a woman and still have a baby through in vitro fertilization or other protocols. Healing is what you need to do. It won't happen overnight, but if you want to have the life you imagine, there's only one way to get there.

Be gentle and patient with yourself. I wish you clear skies and smooth sailing.