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Originally Posted by comstible
I don't plan on giving up. But what you are saying is that I might associate feelings of the past with her and that is what causes these depressed feelings? I just hope it goes away with time because it's quite frustrating. Thank you for answering!
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You're very welcome, my friend

And yes, that is basically what I meant, because the mind gets programmed into something to its core until what is happening to it now seems natural. But, everything has an origin, and I think your past with your girlfriend is the origin of the depression. I'm not saying that she is directly the reason and that you should fault her for that, but you know your situation better than I do!
And hang in there! I know that things like this are incredibly frustrating, but you'll get better in time once you REALLY realize the essence of the time you spend/spent with her.