Firstly, I call bullshyt about the male friends issue.

Most of my friends growing up were guys until we all reached marrying age and their wives didn't want me around.

My first ever bff was a boy, Andy we met when we were 4 years old. I thought we would be friends forever, I loved him like my very own brother, but I sadly lost him to the junky lifestyle when we hit our teens.

Please note, I did NOT sleep with any of my male friends, we all grew up together, because contrary to popular belief BOYS & GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS.

The only close male friends I have now is my bf and a few relatives, but that's due to other peoples insecurities and controlling behavior, the friendships never soured.

Secondly, it's none of your business who your gf has had sex with!!! That's private information, I repeat, PRIVATE. And even if she was willing to share, you've admitted you wont be able to handle hearing that they have a sexual history.

So what would be the point of asking this question?

Because if its peace of mind your after, its not her job to give it to you, she's done nothing wrong, and if you're looking for ways to torture yourself, best do that solo as well.

You know that saying, curiosity killed the cat?

Well
Morbid obsessive curiosity killed the relationship.

Your gf's past is behind her, leave it there where it belongs.



I can't for the life of me figure out why people insist on creating problems where there are none.

The sexual condition stuff?
Now that's an actual relationship topic because its current, it's relevant and it affects you both.

But that I would only bring up when you actually reach that level of intimacy. This is of course assuming you two haven't had sex with each other yet

Who knows, maybe tomorrow you decide you're not confident enough to have a gf who has guy friends and you bail before you even have sex.


Seriously, every relationship has there challenges, enjoy your honeymoon phase instead of creating drama, theres enough of that in the future 😊