I've been dating a guy (coworker) off and on for about one year. It seems as though our conversations most of the time lead to him offering to tell me that he does no want a relationship. We could be talking about anything and he always goes back to the "relationship" conversation. It's gotten to the point where I tell him "I don't want to hear it- our conversation is not about relationships right now."

The reason this is becoming extremely irritating is we agree that we have chemistry and I've grown to care deeply for him. We get along very well as long as he's not steering the conversation to relationship talk. But, I notice he likes things that relationships offer like companionship, sex, insight, cuddling, advice, etc., yet he's adamant he doesn't want a relationship because there aren't any good girls anymore, except me of course, but...he still doesn't want a relationship.

How do I or should I, move on? Is there hope for this guy to commit? I've tried several times to move on, but because we work together I haven't been able to fully break away because I'm forced to see him 5 days per week.

I'd go for about two weeks without calling him. After about the first two days he'd reach out, but nothing after that. He'd then wait for me to contact him.

What's a girl to do?