Many of us are, UCLA. Is it possible for you to work with a T or be in a support group for this?

In my experience, the solution is not someone giving an easy answer: "You're attractied to jerks because you didn't get enough love as a child." I'm not saying that's the answer, just that it's the kind of easy typecasting people will spout as a reply.

But it doesn't matter what anyone says about why you are attracted to a certain kind of man. You have to figure out why, and you have to find a way to heal that place in you.

I hope that you find the guides you need to help you with this. It will be worth it in the end.