I've been seeing a guys for a month. We know each other for years, and ended up sleeping together a couple of times. In if of these occasions, the condon ended up inside me. I was panicking about STD or getting pregnant. I asked him and he promised me he had no HIV.
a few weeks after another friend who knew about our relationship, she didn't know that we slept together. She to,d me not to sleep with him because he had HIV/aids. I was in shock, and asked her where did she got this information from. Her response was: there is no diagnose but I remember that he was very ill 10 years ago, and he is black we all know that HIV is very high on the black community here. I thought I was going to die. He was my lawyer, and I considered him a friend. I couldn't believe he has done that to me.
Because if my work, I need to get tested for HIV every so often. Now I'm very scared of getting positive. I'd definitely lose my job, which I can't afford.
I confronted him on that, he said that these rumors are "rabbish". I told him about my HIV screening next, ask ask if I would be ok?? And he response was: absolutely. I'm so nervous about this that I can't barely sleep.