Don't listen to other people. Most are poor judges of what is right for YOU!

I have had people say the same to me. I don't get into relationships. I'm not exactly looking, but I'm not exactly completely adverse to the idea. It would take a GREAT person who meshes with me well in order for me to consider bringing them into my life in a major way.

I like my life. I have certain plans for my life that I'm not willing to give up. I'm at an age where most people are settled down or are looking for someone to settle down with. I think that being tied down to one place would be death because I'd have to give up so much that I want. I'm not willing to do that.

Oh, and in regards to how people are crappy judges of what is good for other people.....I'm recovering from severe trauma, so I am most happy when I am not in close relationships with people. Idiots think that love is the end all and be all of everything and cannot fathom the fact that for abuse survivors, love is like a million daggers....but no, they can't think beyond their own ignorant, narrow minds to think that not everyone is like them. Ok, rant over. I get sick of others telling me whats best for me!