Thank you both last night i actually filled out a job application and today they called me tuesday i go in for an interview, Its a 3 part interview my mom used to work there and she said all three parts will be in one day so if they send me for a drug test that day then i got the job, As for finding a place after i posted this last night things seemed to look up a little more, My mom is talking to her boyfriend about us moving back in with him when he gets his trailer moved and my grandmother said she is going to try taking out a loan and give us the money so we can move. As for the engagement we have decided instead of getting married next year we are going to change things because we have stuff we both need to work on and right now a wedding is just to stressful to deal with for the both of us