I've finally started feeling like I can ask for help , so my son is coming today to help, and then the organizer/ coach next weekend. But I can't get started this morning. The week at work was very nonstop, and I really need to chill, but not with people coming.

It was so hard to let the organizer in the first time. It made it easier that we did phone coaching 3-4 times first, and then I sent her pictures. And of course I cleaned up some before i sent her the pictures, and again every time before she came. It really helps that I can just pack boxes and she takes them to Goodwill, but it feels stupid to pay her to do this at 40$ an hour.