chronic fatigue is a hard thing to live with, i think i have it but was never checked for it. anyway i'm exhausted from almost doing anything. i sleep over 12 hours a night, i do have sleep apnea, on several meds, maybe that is why too. i feel for you not being able to decide. it is a hard decision to make-to leave or stay. you do have to do one or the other, so you don't leave her hanging. if you're feeling this is the time to leave then do it. you shouldn't stay if you're not comitted. things will get worse and you'll end up doing it anyway. then there will be alot of lost time for the both of you.good luck