'o.O You're a better man than I. I'd like to think I wouldn't forgive a woman for doing that. I would rather she came to me in the first place and tried to talk about what was wrong, long, long before it ever got to the point at which she'd cheat, or actively attempt to cheat. On the other hand, perhaps she wanted you to find what you did, as her way of saying, "hey, I'm having problems." Still, I would be on red alert.