I have had a serious attachment to my T for several years. He fills a void in my heart. I held the feelings from my T for a long time, and then finally spit it out about year into therapy. It was such a great relief to get it out of my system. We talk about my longing quite a bit, and try to find what is really causing my separation anxiety with him. We are both in agreement this anxiety has to do with my upbringing. We just have to go back and figure out what triggers it. It is most likely my disorganized attachment to my Mother. My relationship with my T is steady and stable and I'm glued. It just gets chaotic when I even think about trying to leave him. He has never threatened to terminate, in fact he encourages me sticking with him until I find a way to let it go. The whole process is terribly frustrating and painful, but I trust he is really helping me to figure this all out.