I've been talking to a new guy for the past month. We talk every day, texting all day and calling each other pretty often. Last night we went on our first date. Towards the very end of the date, he told me he has a son that is only a few months old. He apologized for not telling me sooner. He told me that he isn't with the child's mother anymore. We are both in our early 20s. I was shocked, it totally caught me off guard. I'm not sure how to feel about this. I told him it was fine. I'm really not planning on being a step mother to a baby. I just started seeing this guy and really like him. He was telling me how much he dislikes the child's mother and that he's trying to get custody. I don't know what to do about this situation. I asked him if he was married, and he reassured me that he isn't. But my friend just told me he could be lying. Any advice? What should I do?
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