With so many members, and so many threads, it's easy to get "lost in the crowd",but just hang in there! The more you post, the more we'll get to know you. You'll make connections before too long. It's hard to reach out to EVERYONE on a one-on-one basis here, but it IS possible to find someone you can really relate to and make a closer connection to. And remember that when you feel alone or discounted, you're not alone in feeling that way either. Many of us feel that way too. I don't even feel as though I fit into my OWN life! So I know what you're going through.