UCLA Fan: I dont think you have lost your mind but I dont know you, maybe its just straying away like mine. I remember my psych prof saying one time that attitudes and personalities are very different. Sometimes we find ones attitudes very alluring and then we get to know them and figure out that their personality is really disappointing because its a major contrast from ours. Unfortunatly we tend not to figure this out untill we are already attached in some way. I dont know if this sounds true to you but it makes sense to me, however that doesn't mean that I dont keep making the same mistake.

Infact, I think I attract men with negative qualities....

I dont know if I can help much, clearly Im not an expert when it come to men but I will listen if you need...