I agree with you. Relationships are emotionally, mentally, and physically exhauting and what makes it worse is when its not worth it, why do any of us put ourselves through that for no reason. Why do I spend an hour just on my hair when not once in the last 1.5yrs has he ever said "wow you look nice" or something to that extent!!!

During the school year we basically have a long distance relationship as well. He goes to school full-time. I work full-time nights and go to school part-time. We see each other maybe 1 or 2 times every 2 weeks, enough for me to spend 2hrs getting ready so that I dont look like $%!@ for the 3hrs we might spend together talking about what he did at school all week, fighting, maybe hop into bed, and then I can go home or go to work. I was hoping summer would be better....

Not really looking forward to Sept...

I might put myself through this if I thought it was worth it, but I already wasted 5yrs of my life with a...well I wont say....but I dont want to do that again.