Thank you. I am on medication and I have found out the hard way that the obsessive thoughts, some about worse stuff than this, will really take over if I stop taking it. I have a therapist I see sometimes but she's not an expert in OCD and knows nothing about sexuality issues so I'm not sure how much she could be with this. (Getting another therapist would be too expensive.)

Anyway if I can ever be of help to someone else that would be a very good thing.