His personality for sure was a dissapointment. Normally if a guy's personality sucks. It's a major turn off. Then i don't find the guy attractive any more. This is not the case with this guy.I think i'm this way. Because i have not dated much the last 10 years and i'm getting more lonely each year.In 1996 i was in a abusive relationship and he stalked me for 2 years.Then i dated a guy who was dating 3 other women and i did not know it. Got stood up by that jerk on Valentines Day 1997. So that pretty much turned me off to dating.Plus i have never been popular to men.The few guys that liked me where loser's and when i told them i was not interested they'd go nuts on me. Call me all kinds of names and beg me to go out with them. I might be lonely. But i won't put up with guys like that.