I have issues with eating: binge eating and emotionally eating. I hate people even watching me eat, so I really hate talking about it. So I can relate.

I have not gone into detail about my eating with any T, but my T does know. I just verbally told her I struggle with binge and emotional eating. That itself was difficult.

Have you at least started there? Telling your T the label of your eating problems. If not, that's where I would start. If you have already, maybe choose either how you eat or what you eat and try to go into detail about that. Or, since your T nudges you to open up, maybe ask her to help you to open up about these things. Maybe she can start the discussion?