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Old May 25, 2015, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Cinnamon_Stick View Post
How do you deal with attachment issues with your therapist? I am really attached to mine to the point where I feel like I can't function without her. I am jealous that she has kids. I see her as a mother figure and I only have appointments every 3 weeks or once a month. I know this is not healthy and I don't want to bring it up to her because I would rather deal with this attachment then have her terminate me. I am terrified of being terminated. I have been seeing her for years but I have read lots of horror stores on here of people who have told their therapists that they were attached and then they were terminated. I am suicidal because of how attached I am in knowing that she'll never be a mother to me and I don't know what to do or how to get rid of this attachment. So my question is how do you get rid of an attachment that you're not supposed to have that's not healthy?
Omg I just have to say this could have been me writing this right down to seeing her every three weeks two jealous that she has kids and I dont. What I am going to do is write down my struggle with attachment and bring it in. I know I will chicken out if I dont. I too am afraid if I bring it up her only suggestion will be to stop therapy but she is one of the only people I feel comfortable talking with about my life. I have one friend that I feel safe talking to.