Okay you guys, I just told him I couldn't handle dating a guy with a baby and a baby mama, I apologized and he said its okay and that he was kind of expecting that. Its such a bummer, I really liked him. But honestly I couldn't deal with that love triangle - even though he told me he really disliked her, I have no way of knowing what their actual relationship is like, and the fact that he will constantly have to remain in contact with her just makes me jealous no matter what, because a child bond is something that is never broken. Difficult situation. I guess I know my boundaries a little more with this experience though...onto the next guy lol

p.s. there were just some weirder flags on our date, like the fact that he showed me a picture with her wearing a ring on her left wedding finger and him saying "She's psycho, I have no idea where she got that ring." and after me asking like ten times if he's married which he kept saying no to. I would literally have no way of knowing, I'd have no way of knowing if he's still involved or not. And he told me that he broke up with her five months ago which is the same time that his son was born, and when I asked why he broke up with her right when their son was born he said "It's a long story, I'll tell you later."
When he dropped me off after the date, he told me he's going to meet her to pick up his son. So after our date, he hung out with her even if just briefly, it's just weird!