So it's mostly about running. I used to be a semi-obsessive runner when I was in my 20s, so I recognize this. It's not that easy to find people to run with who keep the same pace as you do. To do that, you usually have to seek out people for their level of running skill and then get to know them.

If he doesn't have the patience to adjust his pace for you or for other people, then there's not much point in running with them. It's just going to be frustrating for him and for the person he's running with.

You're right. Running is not meant for everyone. We all have aptitudes for different sports and like different sports.

I'm sure I'm not saying anything here that you don't already know.

His inability to be patient with someone running with him is a little worrying. I'm wondering if that impatience shows up in other areas of his life.

Maybe you should just tell him that you don't like running and refuse to go. I think he's being a pain in the *****.

Jo, feeling a tad grouchy this morning.