Of course you can desire romantic relationships! A lot of people make mistakes by labeling themselves and then trying to fit into that label. Why would you do that? You are who you are and what you desire is what you desire. Even if all asexual people didn't like romantic relationships then be the first asexual person who likes it, then create a new category - asexual romantics. And this will be you. Fortunately, a lot of asexual people, including myself would like to have a romantic relationship! You just have to find another asexual person and not try dating a regular person and feel guilty that you can't give them what they are giving you. I still have physical urges like I need to release it otherwise after two weeks of abstinence I become very irritable. I dont feel like having sex, but I would still like to have a relationship. Just google asexuality dot org. Since Im new here Im not allowed to post links.