Is there a possibility that you are graysexual? I went through the exact same thought process as you (though I'm still going back and worth between straight ad slightly bi). I later found out that I would love a relationship, cuddling, kissing, but getting more sexual than that is too much for me. My friend told be about graysexuality and I found that is where I am. I hate labels, but sometimes it feels good to be able to explain to people in labels, as that's how they understand.