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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I just don't think the word "promise" should be used by a T. There are too many unknowns in life to be making promises especially to dependent, attached, experiencing transference, or scarred clients. A T is only meant to be in our lives for a time, not for life. And while a friendship might develop, even friendships often end.
That's why I appreciate that new T says "I'll try my best..."
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I agree. The promise-breaking for me was the worst part. She told me for 5+ yrs she wouldn't abandon me, even suggested outright and plainly (in an email I have in my saved mail) that I move with her when she retires.
How do you deal with that? I don't know how.