Ok, so I have met several abusers in my life and have because of this a lot of knowledge about narcissist and sociopaths/psychopaths.

Latest year I have been approached by 2-3 men on the street and I am fine with that as long as they have respect and class and dont come off as thinking I might be a hook up. Two of the last 3 men have been bad men, one trying to sexually assault me, then calling me not normal for not wanting sex with him, being a total @ss. The other of these two was normal for hours before showing what he actually had in mind.

I have been very naive, but I am not anymore. Non of these two men got anything from me.

I am still trying, as a survivor of both childhood abuse and adult relationships abuse, to trust myself when I hear weird and odd/unusual comments about things and life from these men I have been approached by. People who are survivors of abuse have told me to RUN when hearing what these men said to me and I agreed totally.

But today another man approched me and after some time I heard many odd comments and views.

Some of them were something like this. I say something like this because the comments were so strange to me that I couldnt grasp what he really meant. Here are some of the things he got to say in half hour.

"People are living like animals" ( when I said I lived alone or that many people live alone ) I said there are a lot of great people that lives alone. Arent you living alone? No i live with my brother ( so he was not an animal???)

"Ladyboys talk like that" ( when I said I am not a woman who texts a guy ( being desperate ) and talk talk talk ( I show my hand gestures making bla bla bla)

After seeming annoyed ( not really showing it ) he said "thats why you are single because you dont let the man have sex before marriage" )

He wanted to provoke a women/girl for not responding to his txts about being friends, so he sent her a text offering 2000nok for friendship, she had resonded right away saying "ok we can be friends".

I mean what kind of man does that instead of just leaving her alone?

At one point, after flattering me, he name called some other women he had seen with their men/husbands for ugly. He reached to say "fat" before I got to ask "do you mean their personality?" Who wants a man anyway who speaks down on women.

before this he had flattered me and said where I had been all his life, did I like him, if you like me I must like him as he is ( not asking how old he is, as I asked how old he is ). It was clear he thought I should be interested. When he found out I was not he was in no way interested in a home life with a woman at all, that life bored him. I said I loved home life with a husband one day. ( not him ) this was just casual talk. It seems like he thought I would bite on his flattering me and just "like him".

I hear weird things like this and I cant say this is all normal. I mean it sounds so odd some of it, if not all of it??

How can I trust myself? what to you think of this?