I met a girl via online 2 months ago, we bumped into each other on a random chat, she had just split from boyfriend(or in process), and i was bored. We got chatting which was suppose to be fun only, she is a Nepalese girl, im british man. Im currently around 16 stone, so abit overweight.

From start she said she couldn't date anyone overweight, which was fine as i wasn't expecting that, but after a month of talking we met up stayed away for 3 days at a hotel. We had sex and did alot together that was very personal and passionate(least for me). I was suprised she did this as she didn't want to be with me, never mind sleep with me.

She constantly bounces around with her moods, im currently in process of working out and being on a diet to get in shape, she encourages me and knows im doing this for her. But alot of days she will put me down and say we can't work, then other days say maybe we could be together.

I currently have another trip booked with her for end of June, 9 days away together. We have talked every night since we met, and alot of time on phone, last 2 days she has asked for space saying im smothering her and to talk less, she has done this before and for now shes taking a day off from me. This is all fine if she was more stable in her feelings.

Im losing weight, getting fit, growing my hair, even growing a beard all things she wants from me, but most days she will spend alot of time pointing out that im too nice, or my hands too soft or shes not sure if she feel anything for me long term. It's very demotivating seeing her constantly change back and forth.

I treat her very well, too well she says she appreciates it and shes very lucky, but it's me making all changes yet she still finds time to put me down, whilst i never ask for anything from her.

She said she would move in with me when i get my own place for 6 months, yet she constantly talks about how something can't happen, now shes taking breaks from me.

The first trip went well, even then she spent some time dismissing me and her, yet she says we can do friends with benefits whatever happens.

I just want the other trip to happen, but with a month to go im struggling to cope with her moods and she is getting me sad and depressed because of how she is.

What do i do, and what is up with her ?