Thank you, healingme4me, for your opinion. It can not possibly be normal. I dont trust myself so its always good for me to get validation. I know I must try to start trust myself. I think its easy to get confused when hearing such weird things.

I think I am safe, I have not heard anything from him ( he got my phone number and I dont know why I gave it, I think I feel lonely. He is not my type even he was nice to look at.

I said to him I dont usually put myself in a strangers car. He said "I am not a criminal".
But I will not do that again.

I just dont know why I cant trust myself. I both hear and think what he said is absurd and dont know to laugh of some it or not because its so bizarre, yet I doubt myself, which is common for survivors of abuse,