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Originally Posted by serolod
You're most definitely not alone. I thought I was completely weird as well. I've been going to therapy for a few months and was terrified to even bring this up during one of my sessions... thankfully I did and the therapist didn't make me feel like I'm nuts, it actually really helped. There are reasons why we try so hard to connect with this one person, mine have to do with not connecting with my own family, among other things.
Anyway, hope it gets better for you !  |
i'm so glad i found you omg. i even considered going to therapy because of this, among other problems, but i thought i would be too ashamed to talk about it. but i'm glad you did and that it helped! i'm sure there are reasons behind this kind of behavior, and i think it probably has to do with loneliness and isolation. we don't connect with a lot of people, so when we find someone we can talk to and open up and be ourselves we end up focusing everything on them and the feeling becomes too intense and overwhelming. at least that's what i think happened in my case. my relationship with my family is not the best either, so yeah i think we have some things in common
thank you so much!