patty, patty, patty, i had all of that.......cruises on private yachts, rentals in the Caribbean, trips all over the world, designer clothes, a ranch, BMWs, diamonds and emeralds....and guess what???? it didn'st mean ****......i'm happier now on my monthly pittance than i was with $10k to spend......i'm my own person now, i had to be his cheerleader then.....i got too old for pompoms.......love, pat