</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
fayerody said:
I'm not growing more isolated, in fact I am getting out more. I have so many things now that I want to do

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">
I kind of feel the same way, fayerody. I am in the midst of a divorce and I just can't see myself marrying again, at least anytime soon. I was talking to my therapist about whether someday I would have a relationship again and told him I just didn't see it. I just can't imagine doing this again. And he said that I will discover where I want to put my energy in the future. Maybe it won't be into a relationship, but into my career, my hobbies, creative pursuits, travel, friend and family relationships, whatever. And maybe what works for me next year will change in a few years. I think it's OK not to do it all. I am quite looking forward to developing other parts of my life.

My husband and I (not divorced yet) were talking the other night about our plans for sharing custody of our kids and I said something like, well, this could change in a couple of years if one of us gets married again. And we kind of looked at each other and I said, I have no plans to do that, so it would be you. And he said, I'm not doing that. Sounds like after our experience, we are gonna be two marriage-shy folks.