NO one is a magnet for losers. the men (or women) with terrible behavior and traits tend to be the ones that come out of the woodwork for everyone. They are busy making themselves seen and trying so hard to get a hook up. Thing is that the problem lies not in who we attract but who we pay attention to. The decent ones that would care and treat another right most likely isn't aren't the most obvious ones in the crowd. They don't have to try so hard.

Ignore the lechers, and look harder for the good ones