I try work on myself and make strong boundaries. He has already just in this minute starting manipulate me on phone, saying he misses me much and thinks about me, asks me if I miss him. It is clear now that he is manipulating.

I saw him driving past me in town today when I took a long walk around in town, he saw me and said hello from the car and drove further , probably home as he drove in that direction. Now he has started with these texts. I said to him I dont know what to answer him on that.