SongBirdandDaisy

I am hearing you loud and clear....I understand the thoughts that are running through your mind and the self justification that it’s your fault and waiting until you’re mentally healthier.....

Maybe there is nothing wrong with the way you think and it is quiet normal with all that you have been through......this is what makes us stronger.

Please get your husband to sit down and talk about everything.... a good relationship is worth fighting for.

With couples therapy you both have to be willing to compromise and acknowledge each others feelings, whether you agree or disagree.

Personally you have to want this as well and if you can move on from the affair it takes incredible strength and commitment , your husband need to understand this and make every effort to help you on this one.

It’s not easy and somethings can scare us for life as you already know. The trick is controlling those experiences not allowing them to dominate your thought process. Both you and your husband will need to be acutely aware of your triggers and how to avoid them. It’s like knowing the road rules so you don't crash.

I wish you all the best SongBirdandDaisy.

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SpringStar