My wife and I have bought several "toys" over the years. Everything from penis rings to vibrators to movies.

Anyway, she is too indecisive to order anything, so she told me to surprise her. I really want to buy a male masturbator but for some reason it really embarrasses me. I can't figure out why, because we've gotten her vibrators and dildos in the past and I use them on her with no problem.

Any thoughts on how to get over this? Should I just pull the trigger and order one?