Thank you all who responded to my post. Yes, it hurts very much. Her exact words were "that is reserved for my private life and would not be genuine if I said it." So the times she signed her Emails "Love, T" or told me she loved me too meant nothing. The healing hugs stopped too. The comfort. Even through all of this, how can I still feel so attached to her? I don't get it..... but cinnamon, there are way more people who have had good results....and in my case, it was more disclosure than that. She was talking about her daughter practically during every session, and I told her I found it triggering . I think that's what did it, not the admission of my attachment. Sad thing is, she's hurt me a great deal with her words and actions, and I'm STILL attached.