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The more you cannot have something.. sometimes, the more you want it or it still looks appealing - that goes for you and him. Keep telling yourself this is not good for your life... not saying you're doing this but...do not ponder on what it could be if it was good. Time will take care of it. Knowing what you do not want makes it easier in deciding who you want in your life.. chemistry can make this hard to see at times.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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