PlatinumHeart, first I am sorry you did go all in. We tend to do that when being in love or being infatuated. I can tell you I have done that mistake a few times and they were lying to me about their feelings ( as they had non, really they didnt because they were abusers only out to deceive and manipulate ).

I would advice you to get to know the person you meet very good first, let say some months. Even we wait a certain time getting to know someone we can never be sure are they real. But to go all in with someone to fast without knowing them and what they are all about only sets us up for heartache. And we feel very bad afterwards.

I dont go all in with someone I dont know well anymore and I dont let them get to use me. If a man respects us he will be patient and by waiting they will really show who they are and their true colors.

Many people say just move on, but its not that easy when getting their heart broken. Thats why I say its so important to not make the same mistake over again as I did several times.

I like this from the Bible.

"Above all, guard you heart, because everything you do flows from it."

The only way to protect our hearts is to guard it.

I hope your heart will be healed this pain.