Okay I know I've been rambling a lot on different topics. And I know I seem a bit needy and insane - all true. Here goes, I go to this coffee shop where I known this barista for a long time (4 years). I used to have a very good rapport with her and she usually take the time to listen to my insecurities and make comments. I really appreciated this and as I've said in other postings friends are few and far between. Lately, she has been much more distant and I don't know why - I have a hunch that her life has just evolved where she doesn't really have time for me anymore. Well this seems like another lost outlet and it's getting really bothersome. I guess the question is should I just stop bothering her and move on? I don't really want to grill her on why she doesn't talk to me anymore - it might be something I said but I hope not. This keeps up I may have to head to the liquor store.