Hannabee - if I did some psychoanalyzing of myself when it comes to the men I date, for some reason I tend to pick guys that are jerks or emotionally unavailable. The one time I found a man who did treat me right and who was emotionally available, I was emotionally unavailable and didn't treat him right. So I don't know what the heck is going on with me in the dating scene. Me and my mom had a difficult relationship, but me and my dad have a really good relationship. I don't think I would be playing out my mom's relationship with the guys I'm seeing, I'm not sure if that's how it works psychologically.
And its not the chase either, I actually get turned off if a guy is being a jerk, I think it's just because most of the guys I date are really good looking and I think since they have their pick of women to choose from, that makes them less humble as a person and more likely to act arrogant. Or maybe they just think its cool to act uninterested, like a game or something.
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