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seeker1950 said:
Can anyone else relate!
At the same time, I am building a positive existence finally, with this knowledge of my foibles and weakness in judgment. I have a good job, a challenging educational pursuit, my daughter and twin grandsons, a large pet family, and my little home which is a challenging improvement project.
I do still grieve over my failure in the relationship department but not to the extent that I want to risk another failure!
Patty

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well i see good things here and i think that your choice to be alone can be temporary.