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Old May 29, 2015, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I have to say trust your guts. If after two years you have concerns and it makes you anxious then it must be addressed one way or the other. Life is too short to be unhappy. If you were happy you wouldn't post here asking.

Also you have to go by what's right for YOU. Just because other people stick around their marriages or relationships it doesn't mean you must. Everybody is different. Couple of my coworkers are married to men I wouldn't even last two dates with and they are pretty miserable too yet they stick around! Heck no! I'd rather be alone!

Listen to your guts and do what's right for you, work on what's workable but keep in mind just because you love someone it doesn't mean you must stick around!

Some women think that as long as man isn't abusive and is kind of ok and nothing is too horrid, you must stick around. No you not. Do what makes you happy.

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agree with this but,

I must add a correction: Some women people think that as long as man their partner isn't abusive and is kind of ok and nothing is too horrid, you must stick around. I'm not trying to be critical here but considering my own experience, I actually am a man that kind of did that for many years myself
Thanks for this!
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