Wow! You have got a LOAD to deal with!!

I sense that you feel a lot of responsibility toward your family, am I right? Please just remember to take care of you (and your marriage- this stuff could be a real strain on that).

I don't know of hop-along Cassidy. ??

I don't know much else to say right now. But I'm still here to listen and support, ok?

((((hugs)))))
Angela