I think the letter was a good idea, I hope to helps you connect with your T.

My T seems a bit aloof at times when I wish she would just hold my hand. I know there are boundaries that must exist but sometimes I need the emotional connection too. I think that's how we build trust.

Well that's enough from me. I wish well, and I'll bet your letter will be of great help. (((gerber)))

Lothlorien