MsGardenias, I am so sorry you are struggling with chronic pain. No one should have to endure that. What pain management options has your doctor given you? There are alternatives to pain pills.
People here at PC may also have a therapist to talk things out. Sleep is very important to maintaining stability.
Besides being an active participant in helping oneself at Psych Cental, many people also help support each other by replying to other people's posts. Many people who are actively involved in Psych Central find it helps take them out of their own problems to develop empathy for others. And their problems are more manageable the more they help others.
Some people find the forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek.
http://forums.psychcentral.com
Please feel free to private message me or any of the Community Liaisons by left clicking on the name in blue to the left of their post) for questions or just to share.