I did NOT FANCY most of the guys I dated but I DEFINITELY WASN'T GAY......that IS a very egotistical way of thinking of one's self that if a girl wasn't gay that she would HAVE to be interested in you.......if women said that it was probably because they didn't want to hurt you & that was the easiest lie they could come up with......LOL...especially for ALL Those guys who threaten suicide when the girl tells them they aren't interested in them. (I can generalize also). None of the above statements are true but some use them to get out of relationships or manipulate the other person.

All of which are seriously dysfunctional communication skills.