In this case, the client went to my old T for counseling during her divorce proceding, following the divorce completion - they married.

So she was a current client so to speak.. but not because as soon as the divorce was final..they didn't let grass grow under their feet... I don't believe that she had an opportunity to heal from her divorce.

For me all of it was very odd and strange as I found out different pieces - I worked at the same place as the wife - and got to know her professionally... and then found out who her husband was... she had kept her maiden name in the professional environment. That blew my mind.

Then to top it all off, my ex-husband did some work for his the T brother who was a college professor and then I inadvertly found out more. grrrr.

I also found out per goggle that my current T (the one since Dec that I like) and my old first T go to the same church - so they may very well be friends.

So I no longer like my current T and am going to quit.

so it goes...things always get complcated for me...